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1-10-1 principle
A rough memory aid for cold water: about 1 minute, 10 minutes, 1 hour. Experts warn it can understate the danger.

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988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline
Call or text 988 in the U.S. for free, confidential support any time, for a crisis or just to talk to someone.

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Above-ground pool
A pool that sits on top of the ground. It still needs a four-sided fence; removing the ladder may not be enough.
Adaptive aquatics
Swim lessons and water activities adapted for people with disabilities or special health needs.
AED
Automated external defibrillator: a portable device that can shock the heart back into rhythm. It talks you through each step.
Afterdrop
The continued fall in core body temperature after someone is pulled from cold water. Keep warming them slowly.
Anniversary reaction
A return of strong grief around the anniversary of a death, a birthday or a holiday. It is normal and can be planned for.
Anti-entrapment drain cover
A drain cover built to a federal standard so a body, hair or limb can't be trapped by suction. Required in public pools.
Anticipatory grief
Grief that begins before a death, when a loved one is seriously ill or dying.
Aquatic distress
The stage before drowning, when a swimmer in trouble may still yell, wave or grab a thrown float. They need help right away.
Autism
A developmental condition. People with autism face a much higher drowning risk, often linked to wandering toward water.

B

Back float
Floating face up on your back to rest and breathe. Floating for 1 minute is part of water competency.
Barrier
Anything that keeps a child from reaching water unsupervised, such as a pool fence, locked door, gate or toilet lock.
Beach hazards statement
A National Weather Service alert for beach dangers below warning level, such as dangerous currents, unusually cold water or rough surf.
Beach warning flags
Colored flags that show water conditions where they are used. Meanings vary, and no flag doesn't mean safe.
Bereavement
The period of grief and mourning after the death of someone close. Being bereaved means someone you love has died.
Birth order
A person's position among siblings (oldest, middle, youngest). Large studies find it has little effect on personality.
Blended family
A family that includes stepparents, stepsiblings or half-siblings. Building sibling bonds takes time and patience.
Boating under the influence
Operating a boat after drinking alcohol or using drugs. Alcohol is the leading known factor in U.S. boating deaths.
Breath-holding games
Contests to stay underwater longest. CDC warns long breath-holding can make you pass out and drown.
Buddy system
Never swimming alone: pairing swimmers so each one keeps track of the other and can get help.

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Capsize
When a boat tips over. If you capsize, stay with the boat, keep your life jacket on and try to climb back on.
Clear ice
New, hard ice without trapped snow. Minnesota DNR guidelines start at 4 inches of clear ice for walking; no ice is 100% safe.
Coast Guard approved
A life jacket or throwable device approved by the U.S. Coast Guard, shown on its label with weight range and intended use.
Cold incapacitation
Loss of muscle control in the arms and legs from cold water, which makes swimming or holding on impossible.
Cold water shock
The gasp and uncontrolled breathing in the first minutes in cold water. It can cause drowning even in strong swimmers.
Complicated grief
Grief that lasts longer than usual, causes extreme distress and makes daily life hard. Professional help can make a difference.
Continuing bonds
Staying connected to a loved one who died through memories, rituals and the ways they still shape your life.
CPR
Cardiopulmonary resuscitation: chest compressions and rescue breaths given to someone whose heart or breathing has stopped.
Current
Moving water. River and ocean currents can look calm on top while moving fast underneath, and they tire swimmers quickly.
Cyanobacteria
Also called blue-green algae. The most common cause of harmful algal blooms in fresh water, per CDC.

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Desi
An informal word many people of South Asian heritage use for themselves and their communities, in South Asia and abroad.
Designated swimming area
A marked, managed place set aside for swimming, often with lifeguards and water quality checks. The safest place to swim outdoors.
Differential parental treatment
When parents treat siblings differently in affection, discipline or privileges. Children notice, and fairness matters.
Disenfranchised grief
Grief that others don't fully recognize or support, so the grieving person feels they have no right to mourn.
Door alarm
An alarm that sounds when a door to the yard or pool opens, warning you that a child may be heading outside.
Double red flag
Where used, two red flags mean the water is closed to the public. Going in may bring a fine or arrest.
Drain entrapment
When suction from a pool or spa drain traps a person's hair, body, jewelry or swimsuit underwater.
Drop-off
A place where natural water suddenly gets deeper, leaving a wading child or weak swimmer out of their depth.
Drowning
Breathing trouble caused by being under or in water. Drowning can be fatal or nonfatal.
Drowning disparities
Differences in drowning rates between groups of people, shaped largely by unequal access to pools and swimming lessons.
Dry drowning (myth term)
A popular term, not a medical one. Drowning symptoms start right away; get care for coughing, breathing trouble or confusion.

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Electric shock drowning
Drowning caused when electrical current leaking from a dock, marina or boat paralyzes a swimmer. Most common in fresh water.
Emergency action plan
A written plan for who does what in a water emergency: who watches, who calls 911, where the rescue gear is.
EMS
Emergency medical services: the ambulance crews and paramedics you reach by calling 911.
Engine cut-off switch
A device that stops a boat's motor if the operator is thrown from the helm. Required on many boats under 26 feet.
Epilepsy
A condition that causes repeated seizures. People with epilepsy have a higher drowning risk, especially in bathtubs.

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Fatal drowning
A drowning that results in death. In the U.S., about 4,000 people died this way each year from 2012 to 2021, per CDC.
Flash flood
Flooding that starts within about 6 hours of heavy rain, often faster. It can happen on city streets and underpasses.
Float plan
A note you leave with someone on shore saying where you're boating, who's with you and when you'll be back.
Flutter kick
A kick with straight legs moving up and down in quick, small strokes, used in freestyle and backstroke.
Freestyle (front crawl)
The most common swimming stroke, face down with alternating arms. AAP says most children in lessons master it by age 6.
Front float
Floating face down with arms and legs stretched out. An early swim lesson skill that leads into strokes.

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Gasp reflex
The sudden, involuntary deep breath when you hit cold water. If your head is under, you can inhale water.
Grief
The emotional response to losing someone or something you love. It has no set timeline and no single right way.
Grief camp
A camp, often free, where grieving children spend time with others who have lost a parent, sibling or caregiver.
Grief counselor
A counselor or therapist trained to help people through grief and bereavement. Ask your doctor or a grief center for a referral.
Grief triggers
Reminders, such as a song, date or place, that bring grief back strongly. Common at holidays and milestones.

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Hands-only CPR
CPR with chest compressions only, no breaths. Easy to learn, but drowning victims also need rescue breaths.
Harmful algal bloom
A fast overgrowth of algae or cyanobacteria that can make people and pets sick. It can look like scum, foam or paint.
HELP position
Heat Escape Lessening Position: knees to chest, arms at your sides, to slow heat loss while you wait in cold water.
Hot tub
A small heated pool or spa. It brings drowning and drain-entrapment risks, so keep it covered, locked and fenced.
Huddle position
Two to four people in life jackets holding each other chest to chest in cold water to save heat and be easier to spot.
Hydraulic (recirculating current)
Water that circles back on itself below a dam or ledge, pushing people under and holding them. Very hard to escape.
Hyperventilation
Fast, deep breathing. Before swimming underwater it can lead to blacking out; cold water can also trigger it.
Hypothermia
Dangerously low body temperature, starting at a core temperature of 95°F. It is a medical emergency.

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Ice picks
A pair of hand-held spikes worn around the neck on ice, used to grip the ice and pull yourself out if you fall through.
Inflatable life jacket
A compact life jacket that fills with gas when needed. Not for children, weak swimmers or non-swimmers.
Inflatable pool
A blow-up or portable pool. Small ones should be emptied and put away after use; large ones need a four-sided fence.
Instinctive drowning response
The body's automatic reaction when drowning: the person stays upright, can't call out or wave, and may go under within a minute.

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Jetty
A wall of rock built out into the water. Strong, lasting rip currents often form beside jetties and piers.

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Layers of protection
Several drowning-prevention steps used together, such as barriers, supervision, swim skills, life jackets and CPR, so one gap isn't fatal.
Life jacket
A wearable flotation device that keeps your head above water. Choose a U.S. Coast Guard-approved one that fits snugly.
Life jacket loaner station
A spot at a beach, marina or park where families can borrow a properly fitting life jacket for free.
Life jacket performance level
The number on newer life jacket labels (50, 70, 100, 150, 275) showing minimum buoyancy in newtons.
Lifeguard
A trained, certified rescuer who watches swimmers at a pool or beach. Lifeguards help, but parents still need to watch.
Lifeguard certification
Training that qualifies someone to work as a lifeguard. Red Cross lifeguard students must be at least 15 and pass a swim test.
Longshore current
A current that runs parallel to the beach, created when waves hit the shore at an angle. It can carry swimmers along the shore.
Low-head dam
A low wall across a river that can create a recirculating current below it, trapping people. Often called a drowning machine.

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Modest swimwear
Swimwear that covers more of the body, such as long sleeves and leggings. Ask your pool what's allowed.
Mourning
The outward ways people show grief, such as funerals, rituals, prayers and remembrance, shaped by culture and faith.

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National Water Safety Month
May in the United States: a month to remind families, before summer, that drowning is preventable.
Near drowning (outdated term)
An outdated phrase. Experts now say nonfatal drowning for a drowning that a person survives.
Nonfatal drowning
A drowning that the person survives. Outcomes range from no injury to brain damage or lasting disability.

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Open water
Natural water such as lakes, rivers, ponds and oceans, as opposed to pools. It hides currents, drop-offs and cold.

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Paddle craft
Canoes, kayaks and stand-up paddleboards. Paddle craft made up 26% of U.S. boating deaths in 2024.
Parent-child swim class
A water class where a parent is in the pool with a baby or toddler. Good for comfort and habits; not drowning protection under age 1.
Parentification
When a child is pushed into adult or parent-like roles, such as caring for siblings or a parent, beyond what fits their age.
Peer support group
A group of people who share a similar loss and meet to support each other, often free and led by trained facilitators.
Person overboard
Someone who has fallen from a boat into the water. Keep eyes on them, throw a float, call for help and don't jump in.
Personal flotation device (PFD)
The official name for life jackets, buoyancy aids and throwable rings or cushions approved by the U.S. Coast Guard.
Pool alarm
An alarm that sounds when something enters the pool water. Useful as an extra layer, but it may miss a small child.
Pool lift
A seat-and-arm device that lowers a person with a disability into and out of a pool. Required at many public pools under the ADA.
Prolonged grief disorder
Intense, lasting grief that disrupts daily life, a year or more after a loss for adults (6 months for children). It can be treated.
Purple flag
Where used, a purple flag warns of dangerous marine life in the water. It can fly with other flags.

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Quarry
A pit dug for stone or gravel that may fill with water. Quarries hide ledges and machinery and are often very cold.

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Reach or throw, don't go
The safe way to help someone in the water: reach with an object or throw something that floats, without going in.
Reaching pole
A long pole kept by a pool so you can reach a swimmer in trouble from the deck without going in.
Recreational water illness
Sickness caused by germs in water people swim in, often from swallowing it. CDC says don't swallow lake, river or ocean water.
Rescue breaths
Breaths given to a person who is not breathing, as part of CPR. They are especially important after a drowning.
Rhythmic breathing
Breathing in a steady pattern while swimming, usually breathing out underwater and turning to breathe in.
Ring buoy
A floating ring, often on a rope, thrown to a person in trouble so they can hold on while you pull them in.
Rip current
A narrow, fast channel of water flowing away from the beach. It pulls you out, not under. Float, then swim along the shore.
Rip current statement
A National Weather Service alert that dangerous rip currents are expected. A reason to stay out of the surf.
Riptide
A word often misused for rip current. NOAA reserves it for strong tidal currents in inlets and harbor mouths.

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Safety cover
A strong, anchored pool cover designed to keep people out. Floating solar or winter covers are not safety covers.
Safety vacuum release system
A device that senses a blocked pool drain and releases the suction. One option for single-drain public pools.
Sandbar
A ridge of sand under the water near shore. Rip currents often form at gaps in sandbars.
Secondary drowning (myth term)
Not a medical term. Drowning symptoms begin right away and can worsen over hours; see dry drowning for the warning signs.
Seizure
A burst of abnormal brain activity that can cause shaking or loss of awareness. A seizure in water is a reason to call 911.
Self-closing, self-latching gate
A pool gate that swings shut and locks by itself, with the latch high enough that a young child can't reach it.
Shallow water blackout
Passing out underwater after hyperventilating or holding your breath too long. It can drown even strong swimmers.
Shore break
Waves that break suddenly and hard right at the water's edge on steep beaches. They can cause neck and back injuries.
Sibling bond
The relationship between brothers and sisters. A close bond can protect children and matters for health in adulthood.
Sibling estrangement
When adult siblings stop being in contact or become distant. Some rifts can be repaired with time and care.
Sibling grief
Grief after a brother or sister dies. Siblings are often called the forgotten mourners because attention goes to parents.
Sibling rivalry
Competition and conflict between brothers and sisters. Some is a normal part of growing up; parents can help.
Solar cover
A floating pool cover that holds in heat. It is not a safety cover; a child can slip under it and be hidden.
Strainer
An obstacle in moving water, such as a fallen tree, that lets water through but can trap a swimmer or boater.
Sudden loss
A death that comes without warning, such as an accident. It can bring shock and, for some, traumatic grief.
Surf zone
The area near the beach where waves break. Rip currents and longshore currents form here.
Survival swimming
Lessons focused on self-rescue skills, such as getting back to the surface, floating and reaching the edge. No lesson makes a child drown proof.
Survivor guilt
Guilt about being alive when someone else died, or about past arguments. Common among grieving siblings.
Swiftwater
Fast-moving water in rivers, streams or floods. Even shallow swiftwater can knock a person down and carry them away.
Swiftwater rescue
Rescue in fast-moving water such as floods and rivers, done by specially trained and equipped responders.
Swim test
A check of someone's swimming skills before they use deeper water. Ask a pool or camp what its test includes.

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Text to 911
Texting 911 when you can't safely call. In NYC it works in English and Spanish, but the city says to call if you can.
Throw bag
A bag of floating rope that you throw to someone in the water and use to pull them to shore. Common on rivers.
Throwable flotation device
A ring buoy or cushion made to be thrown to someone in the water. Boats over 16 feet must carry one.
Tide
The regular rise and fall of the sea. Tides create tidal currents, and rip currents are most common near low tide.
Touch supervision
Staying within arm's reach of a baby, toddler or weak swimmer in or near water, close enough to grab them instantly.
Traumatic grief
When trauma reactions after a death, often a sudden one, get in the way of a child's daily life and happy memories.
Treading water
Staying upright in deep water by moving your arms and legs. Treading or floating for 1 minute is a core water competency skill.
Turn Around Don't Drown
The National Weather Service's flood safety message: never drive or walk into floodwater; turn around instead.

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Undertow
Water flowing back out to sea near the bottom as waves break. It is not the same as a rip current and does not pull you under.

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Vessel safety check
A free, voluntary check of your boat's safety equipment by a trained volunteer. No citation is issued if it fails.
Virginia Graeme Baker Act
The 2007 federal pool and spa safety law requiring anti-entrapment drain covers in public pools and spas.

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Wandering (elopement)
When a child or adult who needs supervision leaves a safe place unnoticed. For children with autism, water is a major danger.
Water acclimation
Helping a child or adult get comfortable in water before formal swim skills, often in a parent-child class.
Water competency
The skills to stay safe in water you didn't plan to be in, plus water smarts and knowing how to help others.
Water rescue
Getting a person out of danger in the water. For bystanders that means reach or throw; trained teams handle in-water rescues.
Water safety education
Teaching people how to stay safe in, on and around water, from swim skills to recognizing drowning and helping safely.
Water Safety Instructor (WSI)
An American Red Cross certification for teaching swim lessons and water safety courses. Certificates last 2 years.
Water Watcher
An adult whose only job is to watch children in the water, with no phone, reading or other tasks, handing off at set times.
Water wings
Inflatable armbands for children. They are toys, not safety devices: they can deflate or slip off.
White ice
Cloudy ice formed when snow melts and refreezes. It is only about half as strong as clear ice, so double the thickness rules.
WISQARS
CDC's free online injury data system (Web-based Injury Statistics Query and Reporting System), which includes U.S. drowning deaths.
World Drowning Prevention Day
25 July, named by the UN General Assembly in 2021 to raise awareness that drowning is preventable.