Key takeaways

  • If you might hurt yourself or you can't cope right now, call or text 988, any time. In an emergency, call 911.
  • Peer support groups such as The Compassionate Friends are free and include parents, siblings and grandparents.
  • A doctor, your insurance plan, an employee assistance program or FindTreatment.gov can help you find a counselor.
  • Grieving children and teens can join free camps and groups. The Dougy Center and NACG directories list programs near you.
  • Faith-based and culturally specific support exists, including options for Muslim and South Asian families.

You can find grief support through crisis lines, free peer support groups, grief counselors and therapists, and camps or groups made for grieving children and teens. Start with what you need most right now. If you feel unsafe or can't cope, call or text 988 at any hour. In an emergency, call 911.

Every listing below was checked on its own website on October 18, 2026. Programs, hours and costs change, so confirm the details before you go. A listing here is not an endorsement, and none of these organizations is a partner of the Amin Foundation.

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Peer support groups

Peer groups bring together people who have lived through a similar loss. Many are free.

  • The Compassionate Friends (opens in a new tab): free peer support after the death of a child at any age, from any cause, for parents, grandparents and siblings. “There is never a charge to attend a TCF meeting.” Adult siblings are welcome at every chapter, and there are live online chats and private Facebook groups. Call the National Office at 877-969-0010 for a referral to the nearest chapter and a bereavement packet at no charge.
  • Bereaved Parents of the USA (opens in a new tab): volunteer-run chapters for parents, siblings and grandparents after a child's death, including a few chapters just for siblings. Contact the chapter leader for meeting details.
  • GriefShare (opens in a new tab) (Christian, faith-based): weekly groups, mostly at churches and also online, that use a video, discussion and workbook. GriefShare says the cost for most groups ranges from free to about $25 for the workbook. A Spanish site is available.
  • COPE Sibling Support Groups (opens in a new tab) (New York City and Long Island): free groups for adults whose brother or sister died, led by licensed clinicians, in person or virtual, including a group for the newly bereaved. Joining starts with an intake form and a phone call.
  • Our House NYC (opens in a new tab) (Manhattan): a grief support center that opened in late October 2025. It runs peer groups matched by age and by relationship to the person who died, including siblings, plus a family program with parallel groups for kids, teens and caregivers. Ask about cost during intake.
  • SAMHIN Sahara Grief Support Group (opens in a new tab): a free group on Zoom, twice a month, for any South Asian person grieving a loved one, whatever the relationship or time since the loss.

Grief counseling and therapy

A counselor or therapist can help when grief feels too heavy to carry alone, or when it gets in the way of daily life for a long time. The National Institute of Mental Health (opens in a new tab) suggests these ways to find one:

  1. Your primary care provider can screen you and refer you to a mental health professional.
  2. Your health insurance can tell you which local providers are covered.
  3. An employee assistance program (EAP) at work is a free, confidential service that can help with grief and trauma. Ask human resources if you have one.
  4. FindTreatment.gov (opens in a new tab) is SAMHSA's locator for mental health services. SAMHSA's National Helpline (opens in a new tab), 1-800-662-4357, is a free, confidential treatment referral service, open 24/7 in English and Spanish.
  5. Your school or college, if you are a student, may offer counseling.

If cost is a worry, the National Institute on Aging (opens in a new tab) suggests asking providers about a sliding-fee scale. It also notes that hospices can offer bereavement support to families even if hospice care was not used before the death.

When you call, NIMH suggests asking: What experience do you have with grief like mine? How do you usually help? How long might it take? Do you take my insurance? For signs that grief needs more help, see when grief doesn't ease.

Support for grieving children and teens

Our guides to helping a child grieve a sibling and supporting a grieving teen explain what to look for and when to reach out.

Faith and community support

Many people find comfort in their faith community, in prayer or in time with others who share their beliefs, as the National Institute on Aging (opens in a new tab) notes. A trusted imam, pastor, rabbi, priest or other faith leader can be a good first call.

Online communities

If you can't get to a meeting, or you want to talk at night from home:

  • The Compassionate Friends runs weekly live online chats with trained monitors who are bereaved themselves, and private Facebook groups, including one for sibling loss (Family Support (opens in a new tab)).
  • Comfort Zone Camp and the SAMHIN Sahara group meet online.
  • Many therapists offer sessions by video. Ask when you call.

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Grief Support Contacts

A one-page list of verified grief support: 988 and Crisis Text Line, groups for parents and siblings, and children's grief programs and camps.

What you can do today

Common questions

Is there free grief counseling?

Many grief support groups are free, including The Compassionate Friends meetings and several New York programs for children and adult siblings. For counseling, ask about a sliding-fee scale. Hospices can offer bereavement support even if hospice care wasn't used before the death, according to the National Institute on Aging. An employee assistance program at work may also cover grief counseling at no cost.

Can I call 988 if I'm grieving but not suicidal?

Yes. The 988 Lifeline says its counselors help with emotional distress, or if you just need someone to talk to. It is free, confidential and open 24/7 by call, text or chat. Call 911 for a medical emergency.

How do I find a grief group for my child?

Search the Dougy Center program finder or the NACG Find Support directory by ZIP code. Both list children's grief groups, camps and counselors. In New York City, The Jewish Board runs free groups for ages 3 to 18, and Our House NYC has family programs. Free national camps include Comfort Zone Camp and Experience Camps.

Does the Amin Foundation run support groups?

Not yet. Supporting families after a drowning is part of our mission, and we are working toward it. For now, this page points you to established organizations. Listing them is not an endorsement, and none of them is a partner of the foundation.

Tools and printables for this guide

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Grief support navigator

Answer a few gentle questions to find vetted grief support: groups, counselors, camps for kids and sibling support. 988 is always here.

Printable

Grief Support Contacts

A one-page list of verified grief support: 988 and Crisis Text Line, groups for parents and siblings, and children's grief programs and camps.

Sources

  1. 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (opens in a new tab) 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (SAMHSA-funded)
  2. 988 Frequently Asked Questions (opens in a new tab) SAMHSA
  3. Deaf, Hard of Hearing, Hearing Loss (opens in a new tab) 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline
  4. Crisis Text Line (opens in a new tab) Crisis Text Line
  5. Crisis Text Line en español (opens in a new tab) Crisis Text Line
  6. NYC 988 (opens in a new tab) City of New York
  7. Testimony on 988 in New York City (Sept 26, 2025) (opens in a new tab) NYC Department of Health and Mental Hygiene
  8. Text-to-911 (opens in a new tab) City of New York
  9. The Compassionate Friends: chapter locator (opens in a new tab) The Compassionate Friends
  10. Family Support (siblings and grandparents) (opens in a new tab) The Compassionate Friends
  11. Find a Chapter (opens in a new tab) Bereaved Parents of the USA
  12. GriefShare: frequently asked questions (opens in a new tab) GriefShare (Church Initiative)
  13. COPE Sibling Support Groups (opens in a new tab) COPE Foundation
  14. Camp COPE (opens in a new tab) COPE Foundation
  15. Programs (opens in a new tab) Our House NYC
  16. Sahara Grief Support Group (opens in a new tab) South Asian Mental Health Initiative & Network (SAMHIN)
  17. SAMHIN HelpLine (opens in a new tab) South Asian Mental Health Initiative & Network (SAMHIN)
  18. Grief Support Toolkit (opens in a new tab) The Family & Youth Institute
  19. Muslim Therapist Directory: New York (opens in a new tab) Muslim Therapist Directory
  20. Help for Mental Illnesses (opens in a new tab) National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH)
  21. FindTreatment.gov (opens in a new tab) SAMHSA
  22. National Helpline (opens in a new tab) SAMHSA
  23. Coping With Grief and Loss (opens in a new tab) National Institute on Aging (NIH)
  24. Program Finder (opens in a new tab) Dougy Center: The National Grief Center for Children & Families
  25. Find Support (opens in a new tab) National Alliance for Children's Grief (NACG)
  26. Weekend Overnight Camps (opens in a new tab) Comfort Zone Camp
  27. Virtual Support Groups (opens in a new tab) Comfort Zone Camp
  28. Experience Camps (opens in a new tab) Experience Camps
  29. Loss and Bereavement Program for Children and Adolescents (opens in a new tab) The Jewish Board
  30. Coalition to Support Grieving Students (opens in a new tab) Coalition to Support Grieving Students

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